Monday, April 22, 2013

11/4/13. Day 1246. The Final Hit of Chemo into his central line

A Big milestone was hit today..
A very important day as Owen got his final shot of Chemo into his port and his carry bag full of tablets was topped up for the last time. He takes his final tablets on the  Saturday 27/4/13 - Day 1262. 3 years, 5 months and 15 days since diagnosis. His immunity will take over from here.
It was an exciting day, which Owen was looking forward to.....

Thank you cards
 

He had been preparing for a week. Thank you cards were made and printed off and he worked into the night adding his personal notes. Small gifts were prepared and put into bags and a batch of  beautiful home made chocolate cup cakes was cooked up by a close family friend for handing out to the Day Oncology Nurses. They loved them.
A carer came in to look after Luke, as we all jumped into the car, full of happiness. We have made this trip through 4 summers and were heading into our 4th winter. Sometimes in the middle of the night, with bags already packed in readiness for long stays, once in a ambulance and plenty of times for appointments. Today's trip felt really different.

Dr Monkey travels in Owen's
Redkite Hospital bag
 

As we were waiting for a coffee, by chance, Owen bumped into his Cancer Ward teacher from 3 years ago. She would drop in on him and check that he was coping at School, giving him extra school work if he needed it. She gave Owen a big hug then walked towards us to congratulate everyone on this great day, and we just burst into tears........ The emotions were always just bubbling under the surface.
After composing ourselves we walked up into the Children's Cancer Centre, which was full to the brim with families waiting for appointments, as we had done so many times before. Sadly they were all still travelling that long and bumpy road. On the Cancer Ward the patients have their own Pharmacy and with big smiles Owen informed the pharmacy girls that it was his final day and lots of beaming smiles came back.

Our Hero - Dr Keith Waters
 

We then chatted to any staff member that we knew and waited for the person that has been most important to us. Dr Waters. He happily checked Owen over and told us that his bloods were tracking nicely. He signed off all the paperwork and booked him in for his final operation. Removing his Port. Dr Waters was different today.. Not as gruff... a personality trait that would have to help a man who has devoted his life to saving the lives of children. We spoke about his mantra of treating leukaemia as a long term disease and to make life as normal as possible. The child and their family needs to get through to the other side as safely as possible, both physically and mentally. He told us little anecdotes about families who turned their lives upside down to never recover financially and emotionally. When he first started he would advise parents that they should be grateful if their child was still around in 12 to 18 months... And then he spoke about how it was only because parents in the past allowed their children to be part of clinical trials that they are saving children's lives nowadays. He reminded us that we had agreed to allow Owen to be a part of these trials so children in the future would benefit from better and safer treatment. He was genuinely appreciative and allowed a quick hug and handshake. We felt we had been given an insight into a man who has seen too much.

Time for Gifts..

Finally, Owen walked into Day Oncology, into a treatment room and recieved his final shot of Vinchristine, a drug so evil that we had to sign a waiver exempting the Drug company from litigation which his nurse administers wearing an apron, gloves and safety glasses. 20ml in and he is done...
A catch up with a counsellor to complete his beads and we are out of there.
A quick inpromptu celebration was had that night and he gave a most beautiful short thank you speech while wiping his tears. We forget how much he has been through and the impact that it has had on him emotionally.. Owen like any child is very resilient but sometimes you can see the baggage that he carries...
What a huge but great day...!





Friday, February 15, 2013

Well... School Captain... How good is that

School Captain.......!!!!
Wow, we were happy that he applied but I did not expect that he would pull it off. After all, his older brother had the title 3 years earlier so my expectations were low. Not Owen, and I guess that with the experience of the last 3+ years under the belt, nothing was going to stop him.....
School Captains 2013 and 2010...


School has always been an important part of his life and we kept it going throughout his treatment. He would drag himself out of bed, wanting to throw up and feeling very unwell, take some powerful anti nausea tablets and off to school if possible. We would drop him off to school after he had been in theatre in the morning under a general anaesthetic. He was really, really sick, and vulnerable to infection but it was a risk we had chosen to take as it was important that he live as normal a life as possible. School was the structure, and the glue that he needed in his life and Hampton Primary looked after him. When I reflect on it, the School always looked out for him, and he felt very safe there. How lucky are we to be a part of this community. There are many, many children that have not had the same.
Owen's Return to School 2010.
Joel became School Captain that year
 
His first day back to school was the beginning of a new year. As you can see he was full of steroids, and had lost his hair. But it was important for all of us that life was to be as "normal" as possible. 
Cancer affects people in many different ways. For Owen it has changed everything. He is now driven to lead and make a difference. He wants to fund raise, mentor and inspire. He has met a lot of people that have looked after him, from teachers, friends, medical professionals through to companies that looked out for him, sporting heroes, television personalities, philanthropists and charities and the inspirational people behind them. People looked out for him.
I think School Captain is a part of the bigger picture.

An Update... Feb 2013. 3 years and 3 months


An update...
Well a few things have happened since the last post.

Our group with lanterns in all colours
Walking along the Yarra
Light the night. Wow what a night. We were encouraged to join up by our beautiful family friend, Lisa. His Great Auntie, family members, close friends, and others touched by or survivors of Leukaemia, Lymphoma and Breast Cancer. And that was just in our little group of about 30. Owen set up a team and with every one's kind donations, just on $3000 dollars was raised for The Leukaemia Foundation. He had the 11th highest fund raising team..... Not bad as we had set our goal at $1000 and thought that was too high.. It was a simple yet inspirational gathering where we walked along the Yarra on a beautiful evening in Melbourne, carrying lanterns colored blue for "survivors", gold in remembrance to those we have lost and blue in hope that one day there will be a cure. Owen was amazed at the generosity of everyone. 


And the fundraising trail kept going....


Owen and his mum went to a luncheon for Make-A-Wish. There was an audience of about 12 high wealth philanthropists and they both told their stories and what the amazing charity Make-A-Wish was and what they meant to our family. They then stayed for lunch with Owen chatting away. Impressive for an 11 year old. Even more impressive for his mum.

Sophie and Dale... From The Block.. on our table.....!

Lets not forget the Ponting Foundation Ball. A wonderful corporate event where money is raised for children's cancer support and research. Owen could not attend and talk because he was on a school camp. So his mum stepped in and spoke in front of 400 people telling our families story. Before he went on camp, he caught up with Ricky and played another game of Cricket on the MCG.
And he bowled him out...... Truly... Click here for the YouTube clip


Oh, and the Pink Lady Art Show. 2 full days of volunteering and contributing. Always helpful. He loves helping out his great friend, Lisa.
Sculpting for the
Pink Lady Art Show


Yes, life has been moving along with lots of important events popping up.
All is good.

And still on large doses of chemo tablets, and chemo shots, until late April... Then the treatment stops..

And we wait for another two and a half years for the all clear...